Program allows qualified families to ‘adopt’ veterans at risk of going to nursing homes
Published: Tuesday, December 11, 2012
Updated: Tuesday, December 11, 2012 00:12
While many people try to give back to the ones who have given their service to our country, some local families are taking it a step further, opening their homes to veterans without a family, who are at risk of going to a nursing facility.
Bobby Keathley is a 79-year-old veteran who fought in the Korean War. Keathley is in the program and was “adopted” by Kim Pauley and her family. Keathley said he was living in the U.S. Department of Veteran’s Affair’s home in Huntington and said he was in a bad place, suffering from alcoholism.
“If it weren’t for this program I’d be out in the weed patch drinking my wine and I wouldn’t care if I’d lived today or died tomorrow,” Keathley said”
Keathley said he had nothing to live for just a few months ago. He had lost touch with his family and was alone, but then he got into the Medical Foster Home program, which allows qualified families to “adopt” a veteran, who would otherwise be living in a nursing home.
“Well, if it weren’t for this, I would have no place to sleep or nothing,” Keathley said.
Kim Pauley is a qualified candidate for the Medical Foster Home Program. The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs requires veterans in the program to be a qualified care provider. Medical Foster Homes require a trained caregiver on duty 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
Pauley applied to be a foster family to a veteran and was matched up with the 79-year-old veteran. She helps Keathley perform day-to-day activities such as bathing, taking medication and getting dressed. Before working in the Medical Foster Home program, Pauley worked in the medical field and said she feels helping Keathley is her calling.
“It makes me feel great, I feel like I’m impacting him,” Pauley said. “He’s changed his life around he’s really opened up to us and its just amazing to see where he was and where he is now.”
The Department of Veterans Affairs said Medical Foster Homes are not provided or paid for by VA. To be eligible for a Medical Foster Home the veteran needs to be enrolled in Home Based Primary Care. The charge for a Medical Foster Home runs from $1,500 to $3,000 based on the level of “It’s important,” Pauley said. “I am able to be there for them, a lot of these veterans didn’t have love and for him to be in a family setting, it helps.”
Pauley said Keathley has become part of her family. She said Keathley has bonded with her young children. Pauley said she got Keathley involved in their family church and was able to reunite him with his sister, who he has not seen in six years.
“He has lost contact with his family,” Pauley said. “I was able to track her down in Kentucky and I took him down to visit with her. To see the smile on his face was something that’s hard to put into words.”
The VA has a check list of questions that potential candidates of the Medical Foster Home program should ask themselves; How much assistance do I need for my activities of daily living (e.g., bathing and getting dressed)? What are my caregiver’s needs? How much independence and privacy do I want? What sort of social interactions are important to me? How much can I afford to pay for care each month?
Keathley said his life has been turned around by the love of his new foster family. He said most notably he’s quit using curse words.
“This is one of the best things that has ever happened to me,” Keathley said. “I can’t talk bad around the kids. The wine, I gave it up and I joined a church, I have a different outlook on life.”
If a veteran is interesting in seeking a Medical Foster Home the VA said they should contact their VA social worker and if a care provider is interested in opening up their home to a veteran they should contact the Huntington VA office at 304-429-6741.
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